Say what you actually mean about the person you just married
All the thank-yous handled, and the words about your partner that are hard to write alone.
Why this speech is hard, and how we make it easy
The groom's speech has a job to do: thank the parents, the wedding party and the guests. And one moment matters more than all of it, which is what you say about your new husband or wife. Most grooms nail the logistics and fumble the feeling. We make sure you do both.
- 01Open by thanking the guests for coming and the previous speaker (traditionally the father of the bride).
- 02Work through the thank-yous: both sets of parents, the wedding party, and anyone who made the day happen, warm and specific, not a shopping list.
- 03A story or two about how you met, or a moment that sums you up as a pair.
- 04Speak directly to your partner: what you love about them, and what today means. This is the heart of the speech.
- 05Close with a toast, traditionally to the bridesmaids, or to your new spouse.
This is the exact structure your speech is written to, filled with your stories, in your tone.
Your speech, three steps away
Answer the questions
About ten minutes, and it costs nothing: who you are, who it is about, your best stories, and the tone you want. No writing skill needed, just the truth.
Read how it opens
Your speech gets written from those answers straight away. You land on a private page showing the real opening, not a sample and not somebody else's.
Unlock the rest
If it sounds like you, pay and the whole thing appears, plus two more complete drafts with a different feel and two free tweaks.
Three ways to get it written
Back in minutes
Everything I know about wedding speeches, built into the brief the AI writes from.
- Answer about ten minutes of questions, free
- See your real opening before you decide anything
- Unlock it for three complete drafts, each with a different feel
- Two free tweaks if a draft is not quite right
- A private link and email delivery, yours to keep
Back within 48 hours
The AI writes the draft, then I go through it line by line before you ever see it.
- Written by AI from your own stories, and I say so
- I read it out loud, so you know it works said and not just read
- I cut anything that will land badly in that particular room
- Names, dates and details checked against what you told me
- One round of changes once you have read it
Back within a week
A proper conversation, then a speech written from scratch. No AI at any stage of this one.
- A call first, about 45 minutes, where I get the stories out of you
- I write the whole thing myself, with no AI at any point
- Drafts back and forth until you are happy standing up with it
- Notes on delivery: where to pause, what to cut if the day overruns
- One person, named, accountable for your speech
Groom speech questions
Who does the groom need to thank?
Does the groom's speech have to be funny?
Guides for the groom speech
- What order do wedding speeches go in
The traditional UK order is father of the bride, groom, best man. Why it runs that way, where the bride and maid of honour fit, and how to handle two best men.
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